Thursday, August 1, 2013

Hijrah Qaseh


Squad Hijrah riding program distributing pamplet about our beloved Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him.

Squad Hijrah site meeting for an outdoor program.

There's a handful of students in my school that always wander aimlessly skipping classes. No point chasing after them. They are young and energetic. We would wonder what make them come to school in the first place. Well, one because of pocket money. No school, no pocket money. Some come to avoid helping parents with their business. Avoiding being cheap paid labors of their parents. Some come to see their friends. Study has never been in their agenda. School is just a meeting point.

When I enter their classes as a relief teacher I would always take the opportunity to interview them and to get to know what's in their heart. One particular boy, Hussein (not his real name), caught my attention. He can talk about himself like a counselor. Maybe because he has seen the counselor so many times already that counselor's words has become his script. "Teacher, I'm not interested to study because the teachers are not interested to teach us", blaming others, a common trait of problematic students. "I'm like this because I tend to follow my friends but I know I should't follow them blindly', his perception of his situation. My perception is that he's the leader, others simply follow him. "Sometimes I want to go to the mosque or musolla but I'm afraid others will make a mockery of me". Even problematic students want to change, they are not happy about themselves. But they don't have the strength or the right friends to help them to change. 

I have always preach to my Squad Hijrah students that problematic students are like that bcause they can't find the right path. Why can't they find the right path? Because they didn't get to meet good people like us. Why is it that they didn't get to see good people like us? Because good people like us didn't approach people like them. We have to make the move first.

One day last week in this blessed month of Ramadhan Allah gave me the idea to create a school program for these kids. It took me two nights to device the paper work and the agenda of the program. Bottom line is 30 problematic students will be paired with 30 good students to discuss heart to heart about their problems and to lead them to think for themselves how to solve their problems. But the participants must be on voluntary basis. We can make a horse go to the river but we can't force it to drink the water. Thus, it must be on voluntary basis, not forced to. The school administration were elated with my paper work. Green light was immediately given.

I approached Hussein first, being the leader of his group. Had a slow talk with about about this program especially designed to help him and his friends, he immediately become my agent. Today he came with six of his gang members, all of them looking as haggard as himself. All of them volunteered to attend the Hijrah Qaseh program. Praise be to Allah. Allah has answered my prayer. I will continue with my head hunting job after the Eidul Fitr school break. May Allah ease my Squad Hijrah students and me in our quest to make a change in the school environment. Our effort might be small but it's a good beginning. And I told my Squah Hijrah students who will be the facilitator or student-counselor in the program to pray solat Hajat asking strength from Almighty Allah. Asking Allah to bless our effort with a change, no matter how small, in the attitude of the problematic students. May they be like Saidina Omar Al Khattab who was the worst enemy of Islam when he was in jahiliyyah who change to be one of the best companions of Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him (p.b.u.h). 

Oo Allah. You are the holder of our heart. You are the one capable of changing our heart. Please change Hussein and his alike like You change Saidina Omar Al Khattab. Allah humma ameen. 

May Allah bless us all.

P.S. - got an usrah session after this with my students. Pray for us.


 mockery -  derision; ridicule: stung by her mockery, Frankie hung his head.
• in sing. ] an absurd misrepresentation or imitation of something: after a mockery of a trial in London, he was executed. elated   - verb [ with obj. ] (usu. as adj. elated)make (someone) ecstatically happy: I felt elated at beating Dennis.haggard  looking exhausted and unwell, esp. from fatigue, worry, or suffering: I trailed on behind, haggardand disheveled.

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